Happy January 19th 2016

Happy January 19 2016.

Today's Positive Holiday is National New Friends Day

Friend by definition is:

a person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual or family relations.

“In this day and age, friends have become very precious. We need friends who are sincere, genuine and true and also true in their friendship. Those who care for our well-being from every aspect are true friends.”

The Quran

Sometimes we find ourselves surrounded by people who we know are not good for us, people who we associate with but who are not necessarily our friends. This is not a good situation to find ourselves in. When you’re around people who are not your friends you find yourself having to prove yourself and trying to get accepted. You spend most of your time trying to be someone you’re not so you can fit in. That kind of behavior is sign that it’s time to make new friends.

Friends are people who care about you and enjoy your company, they accept you for who you are, they are those who appreciate the value you add to their life and in turn add value to yours. Friends are those folks who allow us to be our real authentic selves without feeling uncomfortable. A friend embraces you as an individual and allows you to be whoever you are without judgment.

Friendships based on money, conditions and connections are not friendships at all. Real friendship is based on a mutual level of respect and a fondness of each other, how nice people are to each other, and the kindness of their words and actions towards those around them.

Peer pressure is not just limited to teenagers and young adults. Without realizing it, a person begins to adopt the style and behavior of his/her friends so it’s very important when making new friends that you are making friends that embrace the same kind of life morals and values that you hold yourself to. This will help you and your new friends avoid arguments and from trying to change each other.

Surround yourself with positive minded individuals and you will continue to find yourself in a positive environment with your friends. People attract situations to them based on the vibes they radiate. If you enjoy a peaceful environment then you’re going to want to associate with peaceful people who will ultimately lead to a peaceful experience shared with you and your friends.

Happy National New Friend Day